Dear Santa Claus,
Yes, I know you’re a very busy man in December and probably wondering why a woman my age would be writing you a letter. Sentimentality for one reason and a genuine fondness for the season is another. You charmingly represent that which is good in society. You’re for all ages, just watch seniors at a nursing home delight in your presence, and amid turmoil and discontent in the world, you help take the edge off the unrest.
As a child, my belief in Santa was low key because my parents never used you as a motivator for good behavior. The nuns in school were plenty busy motivating us. You were the magic and wonder of Christmas. I knew full well the story of the birth at Bethlehem, and there was never any disconnect between faith and you. We decorated the house with both a manger scene and Santa Claus, and the décor reflected a peaceful, meaningful co-existence. To this day, my holiday keepsakes are a mix of sacred and secular.
And when I learned the truth about you, it never affected my belief in God. I thought you were still wonderful, and was pleased to be privy to the inside scoop about your existence. Playing Santa for my own children and for folks who need a boost in life makes me appreciate you even more. We all need to believe in the goodness and generosity that you represent.
Christmas is one of the few events that invite us to celebrate with child-like excitement and joy. Being Santa’s helper allows us to personally experience proof that it is more blessed to give than receive. Watching a child, teen, or an 80-year-old overcome with giddiness as they open a gift they wanted but never expected to receive is joy beyond measure.
Maybe it’s easy for you, Santa, since you have Mrs. Claus and those energetic elves helping, but gift requests seem so complicated today with all the technology gadgets. I miss the simplicity of dolls and trucks and easy to understand toys and board games. I know it’s imperative to change with the times, and I’m trying. Grandchildren help nicely with the transition.
With your lengthy to-do list, I have to wonder how you manage so well. We often get bogged down by the details and miss the essence of Christmas. Perhaps you could share your time management skills with us in the off-season.
When you’re filling the stockings, Santa, please super size measures of good will, peace, and gratitude. Greed and envy often manifest their ugliness during the holidays. Too much trying to keep up or out do, and too little gratitude for blessings we enjoy even though we don’t necessarily deserve them. A visit to a hospital or nursing home reminds us immediately that material goods alone will never bring happiness. Sharing time and resources with others, especially those most vulnerable and struggling, can provide positive effects for a lifetime for the giver and receiver.
For all the inspiration you’ve provided for us through the years, Santa, thank you. May we always believe in the magic of love and share the peace and good will that is Christmas! Hope you enjoy the new cookie recipe we tried this year.
Love,
From a Grateful Grandma